Know exactly what to say -
even in the moments that catch you off guard
20 calm responses for real-life situations
A practical guide for parents who want calm, consistent behaviour at home
It's not always knowing what to do.
It's the moment itself.
When your child pushes back
When you feel caught off guard
When you're not sure what to say next
The Steady Words Toolkit gives you calm, clear responses
for the situations that are hardest to manage in real time.
Ignoring instructions
Arguing back
Delaying
Refusing
Pushing boundaries
"I've asked you to turn the TV off.
I'm going to wait.
If it's still on, I'll be turning it off for you."
This isn't about saying more.
It's about knowing what to come back to -
even when the moment feels difficult.